I have this wacky yet
pretty awesome chemistry teacher that basically spends more than half the class
teaching us stuff that has nothing to do with chemistry. Well the other day he taught us the five
languages of love. Which are:
1.
Acts of Service
2.
Quality Time
3.
Words of affirmation
4.
Physical touch
5.
Gifts
It’s pretty random
and dorky I know but it got me thinking.
Which one am I? You can have a
primary and a secondary one.
Obviously I’m not
physical touch considering I have a deep dislike for hugs. Nor is it words of affirmation only because I
have become numb to peoples insults and compliments. So words in general have little to no effect
on me. I don’t believe I’m an acts of
service kind of girl either because people do things for me all the time and I don’t
really appreciate them as much as I should.
That just leaves quality
time and gifts. Now I do enjoy my fair
share of gifts but I’d give anything to just cuddle with someone for a couple
of hours. Or take a nap or do something
anything we don’t even have to talk because I enjoy silence and I enjoy
spending time without meaningless chatter.
That’s how you know someone is real.
They don’t need to keep talking and they can just be content with how
things are. I mean don’t get me wrong I
do love gifts I would just have to say quality time is my primary and gifts is
my secondary.
It’s funny
though. My wacky chemistry teacher talks
about his wife like she’s a god among men.
He holds her on the highest respect.
One of my friends said this one day “I just want someone to talk about me
like he talks about his wife.” Honestly I’ve put that on the list now because
I believe that really there is no excuse and all men and woman should talk
about their spouse like they are the best thing that has ever happened to them.
So there you have
it. A life lesson from my wacky
chemistry teacher who spends half his time talking about guns and the other
half actually reaching his students on a personal level not just a superficial level. I think we need a class about that where
students can ask about life and other issues.
That would be a lot more useful than algebra.
With Love,
Lil Red
♥
